The Value of Meeting Your Fellow Bloggers – Offline!

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The great thing about blogging is connecting to other bloggers and building relationships. What about extending these relationships and meeting your fellow bloggers… offline.

There a lot of web services or online communities such as MyBlogLog or Blog Catalog that will help you connect to your fellow bloggers and blog readers. While this is an effective way of connecting to other bloggers we often tend to forget that we can meet people offline as well. Meeting your fellow bloggers can be interesting for various social and professional reasons.


Cory Doctorow revealed that the editors from Boing Boing never met once in the first six years of their existence. I have never met my fellow Blog Herald contributors either but we connect through commenting. Meeting your fellow bloggers or commenters offline is not necessary for maintaining relationships but it can be fun and interesting.

Where to meet your fellow bloggers? Popular places to meet your fellow bloggers are at social media or blogging conferences, WordCamp or local blogging meetups. I recently met Holland’s most famous female blogger at a discussion panel we were both invited to. Even though I don’t read her blog and she doesn’t read my blog we had a great chat about blogging and our blogging experiences. It was great to talk to her about how she started blogging and how her blog became so popular that she was asked to write a novel by three different publishers!

Yesterday I attended the New York City WordPress November Meetup. Even though it was a very small meetup with only a few people I really enjoyed and valued it. Why can it be valuable to meet your fellow bloggers?

A variety of people. Even though we were with only a few people, there was a huge variety in level of expertise and meetup intentions. One attendee had not even started blogging yet and came to the meetup to see if WordPress was the right tool and how to get started with blogging. Other people had been using WordPress for about a year and had become expert users looking to share and exchange tips.

Diversity. At meetups you meet people you would generally not meet. In online communities such as MyBlogLog or Blog Catalog you center around communities. The people in these communities will often share the same interests and blog topics. Meetups are a great way of meeting bloggers outside of your blogging interests and blog niche.

Recommendations and tips. While talking about our experiences with WordPress and blogging someone would often say “I know a great plugin to do that” or “Have you tried this particular solution yet?” While WordPress offers a great forum for all your WordPress related blogging questions it sometimes takes a while before your question get answered.

Direct feedback and conversation. Meetups revolve around direct feedback and face-to-face communication. No more waiting until someone has approved your comment or replied to your comment or forum question.

General chat. Blog posts are usually on a specific topic and the comments on the blog post relate to that topic. Meetups revolve around general chat where any desired topic can be addressed. If you want to have a general chat with a fellow blogger you can leave a comment on a general page, such as the about page, or send an e-mail but not all blogs allow for such general contacting. The advantage of a meetup is that you can ask all the questions you have always wanted to ask.

Exchange experiences. Meetups are a great way of talking to your fellow bloggers about your blogging experiences. We talked about WordPress, WordPress MU, WordPress themes and plugins and lots of things that are related to blogging such as coding, scripting and photo-editing.

Off-topic chat. The phrase “I think we are off-topic” occurred very often during the meetup. I did not mind at all as it points out that blog software is heavily connected to other software. If you want to upload a picture on your blog you will very likely first use a photo-editting program. Blogging is about more than writing alone.

Have you ever met fellow bloggers offline? I would love to hear about your experiences in the comments.

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  1. By dinsan posted on November 19, 2007 at 9:32 am
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    voww thats a great idea.. I understand how simple yet how effective it can be :)

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  2. Anne Helmond » Visiting the New York City WordPress November MeetupNovember 19, 2007 at 9:44 am
  3. By Bob posted on November 19, 2007 at 11:14 am
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    Why all the WordPress mentions? There are many other blogging tools.

    To equate blogging with WordPress would be to associate driving with GM/Ford – standard options but there is so much more out there.

    At least this post doesn’t Google Hate as most recent ones have done.

    Guys… get back to writing decent content.

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  4. By Anne Helmond posted on November 19, 2007 at 11:56 am
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    There are a lot of WordPress mentions because of the fact that this post originated at a WordPress meetup. The general idea of why it can be useful to meet your fellow bloggers is of course not limited to WordPress only. All the listed points are applicable to any kind of blogging software and should be read as such.

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  5. By Josiah posted on November 19, 2007 at 6:16 pm
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    Sounds good but how safe is it?

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  6. By Anne Helmond posted on November 19, 2007 at 6:48 pm
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    I guess it depends on the circumstances and where you meet. I was meeting unknown people in a crowded Starbucks in New York City and the fact that it could be unsafe never crossed my mind.

    Attending a general meetup in a public place is very different from meeting one-on-one in a private place. Sensibility and common sense should always be applied when meeting people you don’t know.

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  7. By Lorelle VanFossen posted on November 19, 2007 at 9:16 pm
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    @Josiah:

    I’ve been “meeting” online friends for over 14 years, traveling cross country to do so. I even stayed for a week with the brother of one of my online friends, and we had the time of our lives. My friend lived in Colorado and knew we were going to be near her family in Florida, so she gave me their contact information. I called a few days before, and they didn’t even know who we were. She had told other family members and the news hadn’t gotten to her brother. That didn’t matter. We knew his sister (whom we still hadn’t met in person), and that was enough. We got a huge welcome.

    Another Internet friend let us know at the last minute they would not be there when we arrived in our RV at their home, but said they “left the light on” for us. When we arrived, we knew just where to park. Next to the window with the telephone cord hanging out, waiting for us to reconnect with the world. In those days, there was no WIFI and a telephone cord was precious. My husband and I cried over that damn phone cord, loving these strangers who invited us to stay with them, having never met them in person.

    Some of my very closest and bestest friends have been met online, as well as in meetings, conferences, and get-togethers, all brought together through the web and my blogs. And some of them I still have yet to met.

    Yes, it’s safe. As safe as anything. In fact, even more safer in many respects. You “know” the people in the bar. :D

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  8. By ian in hamburg posted on November 20, 2007 at 8:27 am
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    What excellent timing! The day this post was published I’d just returned from a very enjoyable three days meeting fellow English-language expatriates who blog from Germany.

    I’ve written a write-up but will now go back in and insert a link to this post.

    cheers,
    ian in hamburg

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  10. By Anne Helmond posted on November 20, 2007 at 8:53 pm
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    @Ian: Coincidence galore! It sounds like it was an excellent and entertaining weekend. Talking about meetings in Hamburg will you be attending Wordcamp Hamburg in January?

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  11. By Alfred posted on July 27, 2009 at 10:59 pm
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    Unfortunately, tool for serious bloggers to meet always end up getting polluted with businesses looking to build links or network. Look at Twitter.

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